Silent Lover

dear,



i 100% agree with the quotes above. it is indeed very true. everything that happens now and then, there is a tiny little reason behind it. every single move you make, every step you take, will eventually affect what could happen soon.

yes, living life simple is always the best choice. but somehow, in everywhere they will be black sheep in a family. and i don't mean black sheep from a negative point of view. what i meant was the 1 which is outstanding from the rest.

sometimes life will give you a few opportunities, and which ever you chose, never regret with it. ye, i do have my regrets as im a human being and human being do mistakes a lot, and i mean A LOT. but i never look back to what i have done. some might say im cold and heartless at times, but this is in me. because of the road i took yesterday, it would be the reason im writing this blog today. however we should think of the consequences before we make any decision.

this is a story from an email i read today, and indeed is very true:

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A group of children were playing near two railway tracks, one still in use while the other disused. Only one child played on the disused track, the rest on the operational track.


The train is coming, and you are just beside the track interchange. You can make the train change its course to the disused track and save most of the kids. However, that would also mean the lone child playing by the disused track would be sacrificed. Or would you rather let the train go its way?


Let's take a pause to think what kind of decision we could make........

Most people might choose to divert the course of the train, and sacrifice only one child. You might think the same way, I guess. Exactly, I thought the same way initially because to save most of the children at the expense of only one child was rational decision most people would make, morally and emotionally. But, have you ever thought that the child choosing to play on the disused track had in fact made the right decision to play at a safe place?


Nevertheless, he had to be sacrificed because of his ignorant friends who chose to play where the danger was. This kind of dilemma happens around us everyday. In the office, community, in politics and especially in a democratic society, the minority is often sacrificed for the interest of the majority, no matter how foolish or ignorant the majority are, and how farsighted and knowledgeable the minority are. The child who chose not to play with the rest on the operational track was sidelined. And in the case he was sacrificed, no one would shed a tear for him.


The great critic Leo Velski Julian who told the story said he would not try to change the course of the train because he believed that the kids playing on the operational track should have known very well that track was still in use, and that they should have run away if they heard the train's sirens. If the train was diverted, that lone child would definitely die because he never thought the train could come over to that track! Moreover, that track was not in use probably because it was not safe. If the train was diverted to the track, we could put the lives of all passengers on board at stake! And in your attempt to save a few kids by sacrificing one child, you might end up sacrificing hundreds of people to save these few kids.


While we are all aware that life is full of tough decisions that need to be made, we may not realize that hasty decisions may not always be the right one.

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